Parents feel their kids have ‘closed up’ after returning to school following lockdown
A fifth of parents feel their kids have “closed up” following their return to school after months of open conversation at home.
A study of 1,000 parents, of 6-16 year-olds, found 64 per cent felt their children spoke about their feelings more than ever during the lockdown period.
And more than two thirds believe family discussions were more open and honest than they previously were.
Just under half (48 per cent) were determined to keep these meaningful conversations going following the return to school, despite 30 per cent being worried about spending less quality time with their youngster.
But 16 per cent of parents feel they have fewer conversations with their child now they are back at school, with 44 per cent believing their youngster is too tired.
The research, commissioned by McCain as part of its Nation’s Conversations report, also found 38 per cent of parents now feel mealtimes are more important than ever to talk to their child.
Child psychologist Laverne Antrobus said: “As the everyday routines in British households continue to adapt to ever-changing circumstances, it’s unsurprising that families across the nation are worried about how to hold onto quality time together.
“Now more than ever, mealtimes provide moments of stability and normality amidst so many changes to everyday life.
“If children are less vocal following their return to school, then dinner is the perfect time when parents can sit down with them and discuss their thoughts, feelings, hopes and fears.
“The research shows that the majority of parents are determined to keep meaningful conversation going, and mealtimes provide the perfect opportunity to sit together around the dinner table and facilitate this.”
The study also found that during lockdown, parents spent 16 hours of quality time each week with their child.
But this has dropped to 12 hours since the return to school.
Popular topics of discussion while they were at home together included their children’s hopes and fears (27 per cent), their hobbies (36 per cent) and the pandemic (52 per cent).
Although following their children’s return to their nine until three routines, 57 per cent of mums and dads think the nature of their talks has changed.
And conversations are now likely to take place at the dinner table according to 64 per cent, while 57 per cent catch up with their kids at the weekends.
It also emerged 28 per cent of parents feel their youngster has formed better bonds with their siblings in recent months, while 24 per cent of adults now speak more openly with their other half.
The research, carried out via OnePoll, also surveyed 1,000 6-16 year olds and found 61 per cent have missed spending time with – and talking to – their parents since being back at school.
A further nine in 10 said they enjoy their family mealtimes and 80 per cent look forward to using the time to catch up with their parents and siblings.
A fifth feel sad about having fewer conversations with their mum and dad, but 70 per cent had missed talking with other children and 79 per cent were excited to catch up with their friends.
Mark Hodge, from McCain, said: “We know that eating around the table makes mealtimes special and over the years this family moment has been a place for healthy debate, wide ranging conversations and even the odd disagreement.
“Bringing families together at home couldn’t be more important, especially in the midst of the crisis we are all facing with coronavirus and as we continue to adapt to new routines, whatever they may look like for households across the nation.
“It’s therefore incredibly important that in these unprecedented and challenging times, we use dinner time to open up with one another.
“Mealtimes provide a sense of normality and the dinner table is at the centre of togetherness.”
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